Youth & Teens

What is Dating Violence & why we are doing something about it?

Definition: The physical, psychological/emotional, or sexual abuse within a dating relationship.

Know the Warning Signs ? Red flags for Teen Dating Violence

  • Suspicious bruises, scratches, or other injuries
  • Failing grades
  • Alcohol or drug use
  • Loss of interest in activities or hobbies that was once enjoyable
  • Excuses their dating partner’s behavior
  • Avoidance of friends and social events
  • Fearfulness around their dating partner

Excuses for relationship abuse/ violence may sound something like this:

  • It is not violence.?
  • I was just joking!?
  • I was having a bad day.?
  • Jealousy is a normal part of any relationship.?
  • You got me upset or angry.?
  • It just happened once.
  • “It won’t happen again.?
  • I didn’t mean to hurt you.?
  • I should be more important than your friends.?
  • You deserved it.?

Dating abuse can also cause longer term problems:

  • Depression
  • Suicide attempts
  • Drug and alcohol abuse
  • Risky sexual behavior
  • Medical problems
  • Lifetime impact on well-being
  • Future problems in relationships

Resources:

Be safe, get info, & get a plan! If you see abuse happening- Call for more information 2-1-1 or 800-799-SAFE (7233) For crisis or emergency situations call 9-1-1.